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by Alessia December 19, 2019
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my best friend is single, building her career, liv my best friend is single, building her career, living 2,000 miles away. i’m married, building a business, with a baby on the way. we also haven’t lived in the same city since we met 15 years ago! on paper our lives couldn’t look more different right now… and she’s still one of my people. here’s how we stay close:

1- we stay curious about each other’s lives, even when we’re not living the same thing. i want to hear about her promotion, dates, work drama… just as much as she wants to see the bump. one person’s life isn’t more important than the other’s.

2- our friendship isn’t built on being in the same season of life. it’s built on history, trust, intellect, mutual support, ambition, and admiring who the other is becoming. life stages change, but our solid foundation doesn’t.

3- we make real plans, not “soon.” we pick a date in the calendar when she’ll visit me, i’ll visit her, or we’ll meet somewhere else. and we actually stick to it!!!! i trust that if we say we’ll meet in paris in 150 days… it’ll happen (true story).

4- the person with more capacity puts in more of the effort. pre-baby, i'm here visiting her in houston, and i used to fly to NYC to see her regularly when she lived there. post-baby, i trust she’ll fly to see me until i’m mobile again (baby in tow!)

5- just because we don’t see each other every day doesn’t mean we’re not close. we don’t need to constantly be texting. we trust that our friendship stays strong with monthly facetimes, voice notes, and flying to see each other.

i wrote an article about how to stay close when your best friends are living totally different lives in your 30s. comment FRIENDS and i’ll send it to you 👇🏼
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comment REBUILD and i’ll send you the full story 🤍 comment REBUILD and i’ll send you the full story 🤍 my savings went to zero… in my first trimester. the irony? i’d made that business investment so i could take a maternity leave one day. SO many of you asked how i’m rebuilding after my first big failure. this is it: how much i lost, what i stripped back, the numbers that finally made “enough” feel real, and the subconscious work i’m doing with my spiritual money coach. comment REBUILD and i’ll send you the full story!
answering your top asked pregnancy questions 🍼🤍 th answering your top asked pregnancy questions 🍼🤍 thank you for ALL the love on our announcement and for sending in so many questions!! when i’m due, how the first trimester humbled me (it was like being hungover for 2 months straight), and whether we’ll peek at the sex envelope before christmas 👀 also, insomnia mamas… send me your tips!! ps. there’s only so much i can share in a short video, comment BABY and i’ll send you the full story

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